Have you figured out what my group is about yet? I think we have a lot of stigma in 'boudoir' being that it's directly related to SEX. If you do think of it to be sexual, you're right, it can be, but not always. Let me share why.
MY VIP group is about SELF - love. SELF=YOU, LOVE= GIVING YOURSELF 100%
I want you to feel empowered in this group of my intimate portraiture. “Why do you say intimate if you don't want it to sound sexual?”
There are five types of intimacy; Emotional Intimacy. ...Intellectual Intimacy. ...Physical Intimacy. ...Experiential Intimacy. ...Spiritual Intimacy. One speaks volumes to me. What about you? Remember, I’m talking about you with yourself. To me, intimacy is about truth. You realize you can tell someone your truth when you can show Your Entire Self to them, when you stand in front of them and their response is, "you're safe with me" --To me, that is intimacy.
What is your truth?
Why are you here?
Do you love YOURself?
No, really.... do you look at yourself in the mirror and see imperfections and imperfections... even if their only imperfect through your eyes???
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Let me tell you a little story. Once upon a time I was a few years younger than I am now. I realized that all of my life up until now, my mind was negative when thinking about myself. I could see the beauty in ANYTHING….except me. Why? Why was this? I had a baby… then I had another baby…and my body had changed so much, inside and out. Now, my body was really just in motion for two littler bodies. …Until I decided to shift my mindset.
There are [people feeding] subliminal messages about how I need to look, or how much I need to weigh…or if I have cellulite, stretch marks, or dimples to just try this here product and it will take away my worries.
WHYYYYYYYYYY can’t I have those things? Why are those attributes not ‘beautiful’…
I’m over it. I realized that If I don’t change MY mindset, then it will only ruin my daughter’s view’s of themselves.
Now, for the people in the back that read my posts, but still think oh, this is just portraying “sexy” images, I want you to know that ALL of the women I have photographed are going through SOMETHING personal about THEIR bodies. To really be ONE with yourself, and OWN who you are, OWN what makes you YOU, you have to really be ready to open your mind to see yourself as flawless.
What I do not mean is this. Don’t go stand naked in front of the mirror and tunnel vision yourself to only see your love handles as fat rolls, or the wrinkles under your eyes (or everywhere) as a negative and ugly flaw. EMBRACE yourself. However you need to. Mentally, Emotionally, Physically and Spiritually EMBRACE yourself in all entirety.
HOW?!
What works for me may not work for you, but this I what helps me. AFFIRMATIONS after AFFIRMATIONS after AFFIRMATIONS. TALK TO YOURSELF LIKE IT IS YOUR JOB. GET YOURSELF THROUGH YOUR DAYS BY BEING POSITIVE!
NEGATE the negative. Intercept your negative thoughts…. with POSITIVE, self attainable affirmations.

Decide [today] that you want to change. I KNOW it’s hard. I struggle everyday…You’re not alone. Harder to change as an adult, but if you change now, someone besides you will reap the benefits, I promise.
Do not judge upon them for having the COURAGE to get on the journey of self love.
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